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Sub male feeling lonely without a dom to push me around

I'm a really submissive male who enjoys being humiliated, abused, and controlled. I'm looking for a girl to keep me in line by pushing me around.
I like to look like a woman to and although I own quite a bit of female clothes I enjoy more when a woman tells me what to wear. I like a woman that will basically control my life - with respect of course but nonetheless less control me.

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Tickling Preferences

Where's your favorite Tickling-Spot?Genitals


EthnicityCaucasian / White
Height173 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthShoulder length
Facial HairShaved


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
SpecialtyAdministrative / Management
Employment StatusFull-time

Looking For

My perfect matchA woman who takes 100 control away from me and who spends as much time with me as herself when it comes to making me look pretty just like a proper bitch slave should.
A proper male bitch slave is made to do chores or go for long walks to run errands while dressed in really tall heels or stilettos and pencil skirts or body on dresses.
Our first dateOur first date should include time to sit and talk as well as time to walk and talk - I'm open to doing anything mind you before durning and after said occurrences.
Our first date should probably also include you pouring some kind of fluid down my tights/skinnies w.e and a sacking to establish dominance and an immediate understanding about who is in charge.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byUnsure / New to this lifestyle, A combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA lifetime relationship (LTR)
I live the lifestyle24/7
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBiting, body worship, Bondage, Branding, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Collar & lead / leash, Cross dressing, Defilement, Depilation / shaving, Food play, Foot / shoe worship, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Physical humiliation, Piercing, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Tickling games, Verbal humiliation, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosYes, I love the camera


FetishesCrossdressing, High Heels, Smoking, Tickling

Sexual Activities

Night life:Night clubs, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isI want to try it
Anal sex isNever tried it
Sex toys:Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons, Vibrating eggs/bullets, Vibrating panties
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Cock and ball restraints

Sexual Fantasies

Fantasy locationDressing room
Fantasy sex partner:Now you did say fantasy in that question :P
Selene from underworld

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Total domination all the time
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
I like to wear:Other
Ideal session:In two words
Always powerless
Ultimate femdom fantasy:Starting at the beginning of the day assuming we are dating and have both just woken up in the same bed, she knows I have morning wood and I'm currently in what she chose for me as pj's ( in this scenario for example - I'm in all hot pink - tights and a pencil skirt and lace one shoulder shirt/blouse/ or halter top or a onesie or like I said whatever she picked ) so we wake up and having morning wood she decides to start teasing me and playing with me till I'm begging for release, then she abruptly stops and tells me to undress her waist down with my mouth and eat her out, she then still ignoring my despite desire for release, starts slowly finishing undressing whatever I still have on ( with her mouth ) then she dresses me up all pretty for the day. Whatever she picks - skirt/dress/skinnies or whatever she decides , heels wedges flats, whatever she wants me to wear, whatever colour, makeup nail polish - all is welcome, hair accessories too. Assuming this is happening then she has already tortured me with hot wax and I have smooth sexy hairless skin. She doesn't have to dress me appropriate for the weather if she so decides Iv been a bad girl and that I deserve to be punished, she never has to have a reason to punish me, I have a dick which means I always deserve to be punished. She might then make me take her to breakfast in very tall stilettos and a pencil skirt or body con dress, possibly with my ankles cuffed together and a leash and collar on. She might use a collar or the leash might be extra long tied around my privates in a way that tightens when she pulls on it to force me to walk faster or just for fun. She might play with viberater panties and or itching powder. If she played with itching powder my hands would defiantly be cuffed and if she caught me trying to scratch in any way I'd get slapped across the face and sacked, if I reacted like a guy and fell down she'd kick me in the side and and trample me. When we got to the restaurant, I would not speak without her permission or risk more physical and mental abuse as well as of course public humiliation. When it came time to pay, she'd pay embarrassing me more publicly but it's actually my money she's using which is because I'm her bitch, and I need to be taken advantage of. Hair pulling is okay too. I fancy her pulling me in for a kiss and while kissing she dumps ice cold water or some other liquid substance down whatever I'm wearing on my legs, she does not break the kiss and she waits for the shock to subside and for me to relax against her which at that point shed sack me and hold me up not letting me fall and not breaking the kiss, once again when I have relaxed against her she'd sack me again finally breaking the kiss, I'd break the rule where I'm not aloud to act like a guy and as I'm on my knees she'd slap me on ether side of the face hard using rings to make it worse and sack me again. She would talk down to me making me feel even more embarrassed and probably kick me in the side step and stand on me pulling my hair all the while insulting me and talking to me like I deserve everything I'm getting and why, everything you can think of true and fiction.

In the bedroom she ties me up so I can't move at all and has her way with me enduring however to not allow me to feel release she would position herself in anyway that allowed me to pleasure her all she likes without losing my bonds and she would ignore my pulsing erection until I started to pre cum , she'd slip a condom on my dick and let me cum into it then she would take the same condom off my dick and put it on my tongue forcing me in a way to be sucking my own dick, she would dress me up again and take me to visit some of her friends both girls and guys, she would make me give the guys blow jobs while the girls watched, she would even video tape it for use as blackmail. The guys would be aloud to thrust and I would be required to swallow. These are just the things I can think of at this time but id expect my deviously minded dom to have ideas of her own too.